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The Skirt Code

20/10/2011

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Probably not on her way to school
Trigger warning.
Yesterday Twitter was ablaze (or @squeamishbikini’s Twitter feed was, what with all those feminists we insist on following) with a new Welsh poster urging women not to be such drunken hussies, reminding them alcohol features in two thirds of all rapes. It follows the recent banning of short skirts in some schools around the UK. The schools said this was in a bid to protect school girls unaware that short skirts are involved in over a third of rape cases. I made that figure up.  A figure I didn’t make up was this: nearly a third of people say a woman was partially or totally responsible for being raped if she was drunk and a quarter believe a woman is partially or totally responsible for being raped if she is wearing sexy or revealing clothing.

I fear that blame culture is firmly engrained. When I recently moved back to Brighton I noticed the school I used to attend had changed its uniform slightly. Much to my chagrin (The Craft came out right about the time I started there, I was a big fan) the school had replaced the usual black trousers for girls with short tartan skirts, in case the big crucifix on the school jumper didn’t make it clear they attended a Catholic school. My first thought was not, ‘gosh they look smart’ but, ‘what perv chose that the uniform?’

Which is how it creeps in. In a country known for a seedy underbelly and love of tabloid hysteria everything is now examined through a porn filter. This naturally expands into ‘asking for it’ territory because the porn plot is all about knowing what a woman really wants. So, in blame culture, it is clear what message these girls are giving whilst wearing their school uniform. And apparently it’s not that they are going to school. 

Of course, as pointed out in the Telegraph, by Bryony Gordon, “schools across the land were reported to be banning them due to ‘serious safeguarding issues’, which I believe is health and safety speak that roughly translates as ‘girls put themselves in danger by wearing short skirts’. Because as we all know, maniac sex attackers never look twice at girls in long skirts, or ones wearing trousers.” As I have mentioned before, becoming a teenager is a pretty heady time and if you can’t fill a training bra the least you can do is hitch your damn skirt up a couple of inches. 

And the least we can do is tell them is that they look great. Instead of putting up posters and handing out leaflets about how if they carry on like this they will get raped and it will be their fault. How about we try and give these girls some self-esteem? 

There’s no item of clothing women can avoid, or level of sobriety they can reach that will prevent rape. This is the fact we don’t want to face. 

Squeamish Kate
2 Comments
Gareth
20/10/2011 03:07:27 am

Let me begin by saying that this is a fantastic article. Victims should never be blamed for the crime committed against them, regardless of how drunk they may be or however much or little they choose to wear.

There is one error though, one that has been made on lots of other sites as well (yes I also follow feminists, I find them so much interesting than the alternative).

Although the poster was seen in a police station in Wales recently it is not a new poster. It is from 2008 and the police have a response on their site:
http://www.south-wales.police.uk/en/content/cms/news/poster-complaints/

Supt. Lorraine Davies said: “This relates to a National Campaign that was launched prior to the Stern Report which has subsequently informed our approach to dealing with victims of Rape. Current thinking has evolved and it was never the intention of this campaign to show victims as blameworthy.

“This was an old campaign poster that had been withdrawn but unfortunately it appears that it was seen at a premises in South Wales.

“Listening and responding to the needs of our victims, subsequent campaigns have been specifically aimed at the perpetrators. Considerable work has been done by South Wales Police and Partners working together to ensure victims have confidence in reporting.

“It is important people realise this is not the current thinking as this will impact on trust and confidence and be a barrier to victims coming forward.

“South Wales Police is working with other agencies to identify premises where these old posters may still be in existence to ensure they are removed.”

Frankly this is what they should of been doing all along, but at least there's hope that the victim blame culture might be coming to an end.

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Squeamish Kate
20/10/2011 08:39:02 am

Thanks, I have fallen at a familiar journo hurdle, proper investigation, but I still think it's a sadly valid jumping off point. But still thanks for the correction.

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